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sunny67
sunny67
I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.
Female (55) Oakland, California
Trapselena
Trapselena
Hey there, i am a sweet yet daring young woman navigating my early 20s with an adventurous spirit and a heart open to fun and spontaneity. I am all about those casual hangouts that turn into unforgettable nights, sharing laughter and good vibes with someone who appreciates the same. I thrive on the thrill of the unexpected and love to explore new connections without any pressure. Whether we are diving into deep conversations or just enjoying each other company over drinks, I am here for it. Sensuality is my game, and I am all about living in the moment and seeing where our chemistry can take us. If you are someone who values genuine connection and playful banter, lets hang out and see where our paths might lead. I am ready to meet like-minded individuals who crave that perfect mix of excitement and relaxation. Lets make some memories together. Cannot wait to hear from you!
Female (23) Oakland, California
graciistella43
graciistella43
I am grateful for the opportunity to potentially find my life partner through this process. I strongly believe in the importance of open communication and mutual respect in any relationship. As a partner, I am committed to creating a loving and supportive environment where we can grow and thrive together. If you feel like we may be a good match, please leave a way for us to stay in touch and continue getting to know each other. I am excited to see where this journey takes us and am hopefulforthefuture
Female (54) Oakland, California
Lina67565
Lina67565
Independent and experienced adult entertainer available for private encounters , Offering Discretion and Professionalism
Female (54) Oakland, California
wmaryrink
wmaryrink
I am a beautiful blonde with blue eyes, who wants to bathe in your bottomless beautiful and loving eyes! I am a kind girl with an open, tender heart and calm character. I know what I want to find here. I want to meet my love and my beloved half. My heart is free and open to a worthy man. For me, the main thing is self-development and, of course, love and family!
Female (34) Oakland, California
ShaylaDreams
ShaylaDreams
🥰100% Fetishes & Dominatrix🥰 Party and Play Girl ready to rock your world baby and have a fantastic time. No CatFish 💯 Real Photos🥰
Female (32) Oakland, California
SecretSmiles
SecretSmiles
:kissing_closed_eyes: :kissing_heart: 9_9 :hearts_around: :clapping: :coffee_happy: :relaxed: :) :D
Female (38) Oakland, California
Olivascott01
Olivascott01
Well I am new to this site looking for a long term relationship that will lead to marriage . I value honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, you're already halfway there. I'm searching for someone who is genuine, caring, and knows what they want in life. In a partner, I value authenticity, honesty and empathy. Looking for someone who shares my values, who isn't afraid to show vulnerability, and who understands the importance of mutual support and commitment .reache me on sms 2/1/3/9/7/3/4/9/9/1 or olivascott01 art gmail
Female (35) Oakland, California
curvysub415
c*********5
New to kink so a lot to learn. I’m petite and curvy brunette with a small waist, thick thighs, full hips and a juicy 🍑. I’m a sub looking for someone to have regular D/s play sessions. I think desire starts in the mind so I want to be seduced. I Love lots of foreplay (verbal & physical), anticipation, tension, toys, dirty talk and ***fulness. I like to playfully resist and be subdued and overcome. discreet public teasing really excites me. If you lean towards being a pleasure Dom, enjoy the art of seduction, love to give more than receive and looking for a regular playmate then please reach out. I prefer an athletic build and no mustaches (beards can be sexy.) Please Send pics of face if not on your profile. Please dont message me, if you aren’t nearby or cant host. Im not interested in cyber sex, being friends or exchanging pics. Condoms, clear boundaries and good communication skills are nonnegotiable. I hold myself with respect and expect the same.
Female (37) Oakland, California
msfortune
m*******e
I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo
Female (22) Oakland, California
TravelGirl225xx
T*************x
Hi, I'm Brooke, I love to travel, work on, and offer my travel service, I live in downtown Oakland, and I also love to work out, read, and study.
Female (38) Oakland, California
maiagirl
m******l
more details to come - but here's the basics: happily married for 15 years, dating solo, looking for adventures. I want your full attention - even if it's fleeting. I want to connect and be seen. I want to explore and experience new things and I want to feel cared for while I'm exploring.
Female (52) Oakland, California
soriveting
s********g
**I value honesty, clarity, chemistry, communication, control, boundaries, and connection. Men who offer their power, and kneel with intention earn my respect.** Not here to perform. Look elsewhere for theatrics. Obedience is earned, not owed. Brats are welcome… if you’re clever. Defy me well, or don’t at all. Don’t test me twice. I value self-awareness over submission; silence over scrambling; plans over surprises; clarity over chaos. I provide care, not coddling. **If you message me, start with: *“Here’s how I value those I serve.”*** If you don’t know what that means, we’re not aligned.
Female (40) Oakland, California
NotYourGoodGirl_
N**************_
5'3" BBW Mixed: White, Mexican, Native * Open minded to all but focused on finding an experienced Dom or Brat Tamer. Getting back to the scene after taking a few years off. * Communication and consistency are very important to me. If you are the type of person to ghost, do not message me.
Female (33) Oakland, California
malena918
m*******8
take me out to eat then eat me out 😛 looking for an emotional connection as well as sexual. ultimately am looking for a serious relationship w a lot of kinky fun in the bedroom switch, can give it or take it, but I have been playing a submissive role more as of late. I especially love fantasy and roleplay. corsets and courtesans, teacher/student, general societal gray situations excite me 🥴
Female (28) Oakland, California
flirtyfunfresh
f************h
i’m looking for casual, low to no commitment fun. trying to get into the BDSM community more. i don’t have much experience and i lean more sub, but depending on the partner/circumstances i would like to try my hand at being a dom. open to threesomes/being a unicorn
Female (20) Oakland, California
oakland127708
o***********8
I am on this site because I do not want to limit my search to only my city or even my country. Maybe it is a too romantic or philosophical point of view, but I consider myself a tender, sweet and calm woman. I am a very romantic person. So, if you are looking for a good friend, a faithful wife, and passionate lover, you have found such a woman. Welcome to my wonderful world and if you are very caring, sincere, and loving - you have all the chances to win my heart and be the luckiest man! What do you think?
Female (36) Oakland, California
Akejsia
A*****a
Hi my name is Akejsia I’m looking for a serious relationship and friends I’m a submissive I’m pansexual so I love everyone Im shy at first but I open up So just message me Add me on snap @notyourangel333
Female (22) Oakland, California
sara_somnambulant
s***************t
I'm here to explore my interest in S/M mainly. I'm mostly new to kink and exploring so I guess I'll just paste my regular dating about me here for now! I’m a creative who loves sewing, designing, DIY anything, gardening, and dancing! Personal growth is super important to me, and I’m always up for a challenge. I’m all about deep chats, but I also love having stupid carefree fun. I take what matters seriously, but never myself too much.
Female (34) Oakland, California
UniButterFly
U**********y
Bisexual Woman but also into Bisexual Man. Open minded, Exploring my sexuality and having fun doing it. life is too short to try to figure out which gender to be with, when you can have the best of both worlds.
Female (39) Oakland, California
oakland902742
o***********2
I’m a serious, assertive, executive-type, former lawyer, who works too much and cares too much about the state of the world. I workout almost daily and avoid sugar because I love sugar. To relax I like to surrender to a dom who will buy me dinner and talk about work and whatever and then take me to bed and build anticipation, tease, lightly restrain, withhold, edge, and *** me with pleasure.
Female (49) Oakland, California
WETROSE97
W*******7
I'm very laid back. Single woman. I'm horny very often and wanting a couple that would love to fuck on me and hang out semi often.
Female (28) Oakland, California
LezBHonest
L********t
Single cis female. BBW. Independent and social. 420 XTC Friendly. Looking for a BBC or Ebony. Dreams of attending a Diddy party😜
Female (37) Oakland, California

New members in Oakland

sunny67
sunny67
I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.
Female (55) Oakland, California
SecretSmiles
SecretSmiles
:kissing_closed_eyes: :kissing_heart: 9_9 :hearts_around: :clapping: :coffee_happy: :relaxed: :) :D
Female (38) Oakland, California
wmaryrink
wmaryrink
I am a beautiful blonde with blue eyes, who wants to bathe in your bottomless beautiful and loving eyes! I am a kind girl with an open, tender heart and calm character. I know what I want to find here. I want to meet my love and my beloved half. My heart is free and open to a worthy man. For me, the main thing is self-development and, of course, love and family!
Female (34) Oakland, California
Olivascott01
Olivascott01
Well I am new to this site looking for a long term relationship that will lead to marriage . I value honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, you're already halfway there. I'm searching for someone who is genuine, caring, and knows what they want in life. In a partner, I value authenticity, honesty and empathy. Looking for someone who shares my values, who isn't afraid to show vulnerability, and who understands the importance of mutual support and commitment .reache me on sms 2/1/3/9/7/3/4/9/9/1 or olivascott01 art gmail
Female (35) Oakland, California
Lina67565
Lina67565
Independent and experienced adult entertainer available for private encounters , Offering Discretion and Professionalism
Female (54) Oakland, California
Trapselena
Trapselena
Hey there, i am a sweet yet daring young woman navigating my early 20s with an adventurous spirit and a heart open to fun and spontaneity. I am all about those casual hangouts that turn into unforgettable nights, sharing laughter and good vibes with someone who appreciates the same. I thrive on the thrill of the unexpected and love to explore new connections without any pressure. Whether we are diving into deep conversations or just enjoying each other company over drinks, I am here for it. Sensuality is my game, and I am all about living in the moment and seeing where our chemistry can take us. If you are someone who values genuine connection and playful banter, lets hang out and see where our paths might lead. I am ready to meet like-minded individuals who crave that perfect mix of excitement and relaxation. Lets make some memories together. Cannot wait to hear from you!
Female (23) Oakland, California
graciistella43
graciistella43
I am grateful for the opportunity to potentially find my life partner through this process. I strongly believe in the importance of open communication and mutual respect in any relationship. As a partner, I am committed to creating a loving and supportive environment where we can grow and thrive together. If you feel like we may be a good match, please leave a way for us to stay in touch and continue getting to know each other. I am excited to see where this journey takes us and am hopefulforthefuture
Female (54) Oakland, California
ShaylaDreams
ShaylaDreams
🥰100% Fetishes & Dominatrix🥰 Party and Play Girl ready to rock your world baby and have a fantastic time. No CatFish 💯 Real Photos🥰
Female (32) Oakland, California
maiagirl
m******l
more details to come - but here's the basics: happily married for 15 years, dating solo, looking for adventures. I want your full attention - even if it's fleeting. I want to connect and be seen. I want to explore and experience new things and I want to feel cared for while I'm exploring.
Female (52) Oakland, California
WETROSE97
W*******7
I'm very laid back. Single woman. I'm horny very often and wanting a couple that would love to fuck on me and hang out semi often.
Female (28) Oakland, California
oakland902742
o***********2
I’m a serious, assertive, executive-type, former lawyer, who works too much and cares too much about the state of the world. I workout almost daily and avoid sugar because I love sugar. To relax I like to surrender to a dom who will buy me dinner and talk about work and whatever and then take me to bed and build anticipation, tease, lightly restrain, withhold, edge, and *** me with pleasure.
Female (49) Oakland, California
soriveting
s********g
**I value honesty, clarity, chemistry, communication, control, boundaries, and connection. Men who offer their power, and kneel with intention earn my respect.** Not here to perform. Look elsewhere for theatrics. Obedience is earned, not owed. Brats are welcome… if you’re clever. Defy me well, or don’t at all. Don’t test me twice. I value self-awareness over submission; silence over scrambling; plans over surprises; clarity over chaos. I provide care, not coddling. **If you message me, start with: *“Here’s how I value those I serve.”*** If you don’t know what that means, we’re not aligned.
Female (40) Oakland, California
TravelGirl225xx
T*************x
Hi, I'm Brooke, I love to travel, work on, and offer my travel service, I live in downtown Oakland, and I also love to work out, read, and study.
Female (38) Oakland, California
oakland127708
o***********8
I am on this site because I do not want to limit my search to only my city or even my country. Maybe it is a too romantic or philosophical point of view, but I consider myself a tender, sweet and calm woman. I am a very romantic person. So, if you are looking for a good friend, a faithful wife, and passionate lover, you have found such a woman. Welcome to my wonderful world and if you are very caring, sincere, and loving - you have all the chances to win my heart and be the luckiest man! What do you think?
Female (36) Oakland, California
UniButterFly
U**********y
Bisexual Woman but also into Bisexual Man. Open minded, Exploring my sexuality and having fun doing it. life is too short to try to figure out which gender to be with, when you can have the best of both worlds.
Female (39) Oakland, California
LezBHonest
L********t
Single cis female. BBW. Independent and social. 420 XTC Friendly. Looking for a BBC or Ebony. Dreams of attending a Diddy party😜
Female (37) Oakland, California
flirtyfunfresh
f************h
i’m looking for casual, low to no commitment fun. trying to get into the BDSM community more. i don’t have much experience and i lean more sub, but depending on the partner/circumstances i would like to try my hand at being a dom. open to threesomes/being a unicorn
Female (20) Oakland, California
curvysub415
c*********5
New to kink so a lot to learn. I’m petite and curvy brunette with a small waist, thick thighs, full hips and a juicy 🍑. I’m a sub looking for someone to have regular D/s play sessions. I think desire starts in the mind so I want to be seduced. I Love lots of foreplay (verbal & physical), anticipation, tension, toys, dirty talk and ***fulness. I like to playfully resist and be subdued and overcome. discreet public teasing really excites me. If you lean towards being a pleasure Dom, enjoy the art of seduction, love to give more than receive and looking for a regular playmate then please reach out. I prefer an athletic build and no mustaches (beards can be sexy.) Please Send pics of face if not on your profile. Please dont message me, if you aren’t nearby or cant host. Im not interested in cyber sex, being friends or exchanging pics. Condoms, clear boundaries and good communication skills are nonnegotiable. I hold myself with respect and expect the same.
Female (37) Oakland, California
sara_somnambulant
s***************t
I'm here to explore my interest in S/M mainly. I'm mostly new to kink and exploring so I guess I'll just paste my regular dating about me here for now! I’m a creative who loves sewing, designing, DIY anything, gardening, and dancing! Personal growth is super important to me, and I’m always up for a challenge. I’m all about deep chats, but I also love having stupid carefree fun. I take what matters seriously, but never myself too much.
Female (34) Oakland, California
malena918
m*******8
take me out to eat then eat me out 😛 looking for an emotional connection as well as sexual. ultimately am looking for a serious relationship w a lot of kinky fun in the bedroom switch, can give it or take it, but I have been playing a submissive role more as of late. I especially love fantasy and roleplay. corsets and courtesans, teacher/student, general societal gray situations excite me 🥴
Female (28) Oakland, California
NotYourGoodGirl_
N**************_
5'3" BBW Mixed: White, Mexican, Native * Open minded to all but focused on finding an experienced Dom or Brat Tamer. Getting back to the scene after taking a few years off. * Communication and consistency are very important to me. If you are the type of person to ghost, do not message me.
Female (33) Oakland, California
Akejsia
A*****a
Hi my name is Akejsia I’m looking for a serious relationship and friends I’m a submissive I’m pansexual so I love everyone Im shy at first but I open up So just message me Add me on snap @notyourangel333
Female (22) Oakland, California
msfortune
m*******e
I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo
Female (22) Oakland, California

New personal ads in Oakland

Jenbby
Southern Md Tri-county

Hey does anyone want to make BBW to lose control with ***d orgasms bu either a wand motorbunny sybian or any vibrator while being tied up and you dont stop until your satisfied by how many times i come even when i beg for it to stop
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Lexington Park
houston12799
tickles??

im really trying to experience being tickle d.. like tied up and tickled all over my stomach/armpits/feet and feeling and laughing like crazy but nothing super sexual just straight up intense tickling 🫠
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Katy
ideal684764
Lick

Any cute women wanna play and have the pussy licked and fucked
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Ideal
tamayaa68854
need an owner or daddyy

I want a daddy

Inexperienced

Im willing to try almost anythinggg

Im extremely shy in person though but im better when u get to know me
Im also on the submissive side
Im plus size n insecure but i like being humiliated and degraded at the same time
I wanna be controlled and be told what to do and what to say
Im into breeding, and being d?
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 25 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Redlake
bexyrose
Looking for A Play Partner

23 Female, looking for play partners to show me the kink world. I’m new to the kink scene and want to learn more from either demonstration or mentorship. 😍🩷
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 34 years ● 500km around USA Kearny
the1stalex
Looking for now

A bit tipsy and in the mood to be spontaneous. Anyone in Brooklyn? BBC preferred
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 40km around USA Brooklyn
bromley37999
Looking for a real daddy to spoil me and tell me w

Looking for a real daddy to spoil me and then tell me what he wants in return. Make me wet I’m waiting
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Bromley
kat9798
Size 10 womens feet pics

Iso foot fetish no strings attached buyer female 27 with womens size 10 feet with freckle on left toe no face no nudity dmif interested
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA El Dorado Hills
scottieisalez
horny and lonely

someone chat with meeeee
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 165km around USA Nampa
HeadQueen420
Eat me

Eat me out and feed me
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Phoenix
princessangel87
submissive ***slut looking for a long term dom :)

hello, i am looking for a dom near the bay city area to help me explore my bdsm life more! i’ve had a little experience, but never a long term dynamic which is really what i am looking for. someone to take control in the bedroom, and treat me like a princess and wifey in every other aspect of life :) i’m into impact play, choking, slapping, orgasm denial, edging, cnc, list goes on lol. i love to explore more and more into bdsm and am looking for someone to help me do so!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 45km around USA Bay City
sia16
Clit sucking

I want someone, preferably a person who is afmab, to suck on my clit and make me cum
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 115km around USA De Pere
CathS03
Question

Is it wrong for a woman to enjoy eating a guy out? I'd love to meet some guys or gals that enjoy it 😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Calhoun
redhotheaded
Play time

I like dark skinned men!! Want to find one to have fun with but wants to be open to long term relationship!! Also im needing someone who is open to others in our relationship no men just women to come play
Kinky Date ● 33 to 55 years ● 120km around USA Holden Beach
bunsippp
DMs open

!!!
Kinky Date ● 18 to 31 years ● 20km around UK Carrickfergus
AriMadeYouCum
*** | Wallet Drain | Power Exchange

I’m not here to convince you.
I’m not here to negotiate.
And I’m definitely not here to chase.

Obedience isn’t requested — it’s recognized.

This is for the rare few who already understand that surrendering financial control is a privilege, not a right. You don’t need to be coaxed. You don’t need to be broken down. You arrive already knowing that compliance is the price of access.

I do not tame brats.
I do not repeat myself.
I do not beg, barter, or bargain.

You follow instructions because you want to.
You give because it feels correct.
You understand that what you offer is a reflection of your devotion — and that not everyone is worthy of this dynamic.

This is a consensual, intentional power exchange rooted in control, reverence, and discipline. Your *** is not “taken.” It is offered — because serving me fulfills something fundamental in you.

If you’re seeking:
• Clear authority
• Absolute direction
• A dynamic where your role is to provide without hesitation
• The honor of giving without being asked twice

…then you may be worth my time.

If you need reassurance, encouragement, or chasing — keep scrolling.

Message only if you understand that access is earned, compliance is expected, and devotion is shown through action.

Adults only. Consent, boundaries, and verification required. Tribute required. Time wasters will be blocked, blacklisted and reported.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Springfield
GoodGurl31
Exactly what it says

Check out my profile
NSA ● 18 to 45 years ● 80km around USA Springfield
livininadaze271
Feminine Energy Wanted

Confident woman seeking another woman to explore chemistry with within a consensual F/M dynamic. Drawn to feminine energy, tension and intentional play. Kink-aware, consent-driven, selective. Conversation first- mutual desire always.

Open to ongoing connection if chemistry aligns. If you're curious, confident, and know what you want, message me.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 80 years ● 100km around USA Palmdale
littlesunshine69
Cum join Daddy and play with me 🤑

A Middle Bratty Submissive Babygirl 🤣😝🙃
Looking to have Doms or Dommes to join Daddy in restraining, edging, and using me, OR just helping me cuckold him 😜🤗
Kinky Date ● 26 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Syracuse
littlesunshine69
Cum join Daddy and play with me 🤑

A Middle Bratty Submissive Babygirl 🤣😝🙃
Looking to have Doms or Dommes to join Daddy in restraining, edging, and using me, OR just helping me cuckold him 😜🤗
NSA ● 25 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Syracuse
littlesunshine69
Cum join Daddy and play with me 🤑

I'm a Middle Bratty Submissive Babygirl and im looking for Doms or Dommes to join Daddy in restraining, edging, and using me, OR just helping me cuckold him 🤑🤑🤑🤭🤗
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 80 years ● 90km around USA Syracuse
MarlaMoon
Pay 4 Play Sessions

Hi, I'm new here ..

Hit me up if interested. I'm located in Sacramento.
Let's discuss over text, DM for number.

😘
Kinky Date ● 25 to 80 years ● 160km around USA Sacramento
buffalo47814
Looking for a soft dom to be a brat tamer

See headline
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Buffalo
kat9798
Iso *** for 27yo milf

Hi everyone Im a 27yo single mom looking for a under the table *** I am ok with most domme activities and am single if you want a dating relationship I am a bbw I have size 10 feet and am a switch that can lean either way please dm
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA El Dorado Hills

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